tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1365507914975789971.post1461149839480069357..comments2012-04-22T15:57:40.682-07:00Comments on Leading, Loving, Learning: Ratcheting UpDavehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02246361765516282991noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1365507914975789971.post-52649619323467874202012-04-01T01:21:53.364-07:002012-04-01T01:21:53.364-07:00I read Jackqui's blog actually before yours. J...I read Jackqui's blog actually before yours. Jackquie reminds me of myself. When I feel really bad for something I have done, it eats at me till my husband can fix things by spanking me. Sometimes I need to forgive myself as much as have him forgive me. The spanking gives a clean slate for both of us. Good luck to both of you on your new journey.Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1365507914975789971.post-61481546754431701872012-03-20T03:00:57.318-07:002012-03-20T03:00:57.318-07:00I have to admit, I was a bit disturbed and went to...I have to admit, I was a bit disturbed and went to find Jacquie's blog. I'm glad I did because her story adds a lot. Before I read her side, I was thinking omg you sat there playing with your phone while she was making dinner after spending four hours cleaning the floor? No wonder she was mad! (Though of course, well, she didn't express it in the nicest way...) I would have been mad, too. And that offering to "help" with dinner is...well...sometimes a cop-out. Sorry if that is rude, but maybe a good talk about sharing responsibilities and so on might help with the stress that led up to this blow-up? Best of luck to both of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com